My boundaries

Instead of deleting the long post, I wanted to test somethings out. I had scrollable texts back when I made blacklists public that went with my moderation lists that were on Bluesky that are since retired. I'm not really feeling well, but I'll for sure get around to making my page more professional once I feel better. This will be made into a journal as I'm wondering if it's really necessary to have this up as if someone's gonna be respectful they just are. It's common sense.

Please read. Also, feel free to ask any questions. I'll most likely rewrite this later as it's a bit of a mess, but I hope y'all get the gist of what I'm trying to say. I'm pretty laid back and chill, it's just that when my boundaries are disrespected I get iffy. Please don't ask for requests or free artwork unless it's open. I will also list my commissions if they're open. I thought I should write what my boundaries actually are, I wasn't diagnosed with autistim, but I have family and friends that are, and I'm for sure not neurotypical so I see things differently than most people, please keep that in mind.

These are my boundaries, it's pretty common sense, treat others how y'all want to be treated, that's all I ask. I will not engage with drama in the public field, if there's an issue please send me a private message. Bothering me and embarrassing me, and others will get a block from me entirely. Also, if y'all can't seperate fiction from reality then please leave. Depiction doesn't equal endorsement. Fantasy is a healthy way to deal with stuff especially everything that's going on in the world right now, people need an outlet and a safe space. Fandoms and communities are so exhausting to be in, so I'm keeping my distance from them from now on. I prefer to be around friends I can trust and be myself without walking on eggshells. Online was meant to be fun not a place of stress. I refuse to engage with stuff that's just gonna stress me out, from now I will block if it's bad enough.

Many times my boundaries weren't respected, mainly on Bluesky being the worst one. As it has a lot to do with the regime and Twitter mentaily on there. I am antifa so I'm against a lot of the bad stuff that happens on Twitter, it's not right so I don't really use that website that much. I don't tolerate harassment, stalking, bigotry and other unsavory acts. I was like my guy, if y'all are respectful y'all will get it back, but instead were making a ton of fake accounts. I've seen at least three people I had an issue with do that. Which is really a shame since I loved that website, but it's sadly going downhill fast. Some took it as a way to challenge my personal space. It felt really violating that when I blocked someone they kept making accounts. One person made at least seven or eight, which is insane.

It's disrespectful and it's dehumanizing. I think since it's online people forget there's actual people on the Internet. It still irritates me quite a bit, but I'm trying to be professional about it. Despite how I feel about things, this is my part time job, and how I make money partly. I'm also a caregiver and gametester. I feel that since I'm an artist posting online and in public, some people have the wrong idea.

Just because I'm online and sharing my art, does not mean Imma be always accessible, especially if it's really uncomfortable stuff by someone I don't even know at all or that well. It was pretty uncomfortable for me online quite a few months back, and I'll never forget how I felt and what I was told. Envy is a huge issue in the art community. I think being envious is normal, it's just what one does with it that's the issue.

If any of y'all are rude, try to start a fight in the public field, call me names or bother any of my friends, or are just disrespectful in general, y'all will get blocked. I have a three strike rule. If y'all wouldn't say something to someone's face in person then y'all just shouldn't say it at all, it's rude. It's nothing really personal when I block people usually anyway. It depends on what it is. Also, it's not me being a "nice" girl. Sexist comments like these will get y'all blocked, too.

I didn't want to have to write this, but it's come up a few times. I'm quite a grumpy person, and I've been through a lot. I was diagnosed with PTSD, ADHD, OCD, and a learning disability. So, I admit I'm not fast, I never was. I want people to know this before working with me. I have flaws, I am human after all. I feel that there's no shame in that. I never tried to act like I was perfect. It's my JOB. I can generally tell when someone hasn't worked a day in their life when they make comments that it's all an act, when bruh, again it's my job. Also, there's rules online, if those rules are broken people can get in a lot of trouble, get suspended or banned even.

I had some issues on DeviantArt earlier in the year of 2025 was the time I originally wrote of an ex-friend or I should say more like a mutual that was harassing quite a few people because they felt like not only that I didn't deserve what I had, even though I worked my ass off working three jobs.... But also others who also worked their asses off while this person did not. Ten years is a long time. A lot has happened in those years. I painstakingly worked and worked with my blood, sweat, and tears. This person was trying to make a mess because of their toxic envy. It sucked to deal with someone that refused to get professional help, and they rather bleed on others than get the help they need so they're not my issue. It was a mess last year and I've since taken steps to stay safe online. So yeah, I just want to get this written up real quick so I have the feeling I'm still being lurked over and I have blocked a few people on every platform that got on my nerves.

Y'all are free to block me, it doesn't bother me, I block pretty freely these days, and my only regret is that I didn't do it ten years ago. It sucks, but gotta have boundaries to stay safe online. I feel that if I blocked more often I wouldn't have had these issues, but to be fair, I forgot all about it. If y'all are polite, y'all are free to message me privately. I do not want drama in the public field, doing so, will get a block from me if y'all don't stop. This is a huge issue in the art community that was even talked about in an episode of Sailor Moon. I loved in that episode that those two artists were able to talk it out, and I wish people would do that more than whatever the hell this is going on in communities that are really rough to be around. I think this still needs to be studied, sadly. It's common sense, really.